Becoming

Becoming

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In a life filled with meaning and accomplishment, Michelle Obama has emerged as one of the most iconic and compelling women of our era. As First Lady of the United States of America, she helped create the most welcoming and inclusive White House in history. With unerring honesty and lively wit, she describes her triumphs and her disappointments, both public and private. A deeply personal reckoning of a woman of soul and substance who has steadily defied expectations.
"An intimate, powerful, and inspiring memoir by the former First Lady of the United States. When she was a little girl, Michelle Robinson's world was the South Side of Chicago, where she and her brother, Craig, shared a bedroom in their family's upstairs apartment and played catch in the park, and where her parents, Fraser and Marian Robinson, raised her to be outspoken and unafraid. But life soon look her much further afield, from the halls of Princeton, where she learned for the first time what if felt like to be the only black woman in a room, to the glassy office tower where she worked as a high-powered corporate lawyer--and where, one summer morning, a law student named Barack Obama appeared in her office and upended all her carefully made plans. Here, for the first time, Michelle Obama describes the early years of her marriage as she struggles to balance her work and family with her husband's fast-moving political career. She takes us inside their private debate over whether he should make a run for the presidency and her subsequent role as a popular but oft-criticized figure during his campaign. Narrating with grace, good humor, and uncommon candor, she provides a vivid, behind-the-scenes account of her family's history-making launch into the global limelight as well as their life inside the White House over eight momentous years--as she comes to know her country and her country comes to know her. [This book] takes us through modest Iowa kitchens and ballrooms at Buckingham Palace, through moments of heart-stopping grief and profound resilience, bringing us deep into the soul of a singular, groundbreaking figure in history as she strives to live authentically, marshaling her personal strength and voice in service of a set of higher ideals. In telling her story with honesty and boldness, she issues a challenge to the rest of us: Who are we and who do we want to become?"--Dust jacket.
Publisher: New York : Crown, [2018]
Edition: First edition.
Copyright Date: ©2018
ISBN: 9781524763138
1524763136
Branch Call Number: BIO OBAMA OBAMA
Characteristics: xiii, 426 pages, 16 unnumbered pages of plates : illustrations (some color) ; 25 cm

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nmoshtael
Jul 07, 2019

One of the best reads of 2019! It is straightforward and yet a powerful and personal account. We "listened" to this book as a family - because I felt that it was important for my child to see/have a positive role female role model. We loved this book and highly recommend it to our loved ones, family, and friends.

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NANALANG51
Jul 05, 2019

I never thought I would find myself reading a book written by an American First Lady, but I did and I loved every word. Michelle is so down to earth, compassionate, loving, educated and talented, I have admired her from afar since she married Barack. I have learned so much from this well written book about education, passion, networking with people, and making & sustaining friendships. Being allowed into her life to get peeks into her parenting, her beautiful daughters & loving husband was a privilege. This will always be one of my favorite books and I recommend highly, it's truly wonderful!

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Keerthana_devan
Jul 03, 2019

I wanted to read this one because of the popularity it had. And I began with expectations of getting to know about what made the Obamas that they are. I did not expect to find something written so simple and straightforward and yet on a high personal note. You would understand the struggles, the ups and downs and empathize with it all. There is no sugar coating, I could simply nod along to every word she wrote about making the choices she made. I always felt a woman's viewpoint of a situation makes it more understanding and emotional and this one gave me a glimpse of the US politics as seen through the eyes of a mother, a wife. I have so much respect for her and now even more. She is such a powerful woman, with a strong voice and opinion, a true embodiment of woman who wants to make a place in the career world like her idol Mary Tyler and yet places her family above everything like her mother - true Shero in every sense!

IndyPL_CarriG Jul 02, 2019

A powerful and insightful (if a bit sanitized) memoir that shows my favorite first lady's wisdom, strength, and drive. Her struggles with career and motherhood, compromises in her marriage, and self-doubt about whether she is good enough/smart enough for the roles she has taken on are familiar to many readers - just add in the little background of being married to the President of the United States. But even without that small detail, this would be a worthwhile memoir to read. Michelle is a force in her own right - I can't wait to see what she and her husband do next!

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CRAIGSTUARTADAMS
Jun 30, 2019

I read the book to much fanfare and found it alright. It told Michelle's story well enough, was edited well and supported by good photography. There were no real surprises and she took liberties in addressing her perceived form of racism. This is the nature of pop culture political autobiographies. I would have given a higher mark but her "when they go low, we go high" philosophy was completely ignored in the final conclusive chapter. This was a significant distraction from the work she had completed to that point.

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cknightkc
Jun 23, 2019

In writing BECOMING Michelle Obama proves that it isn’t only her husband who has a gift for words. Her genuineness, wisdom, grace, and dignity transcend the pages as she shares her journey from humble beginnings on the south side of Chicago to becoming First Lady of the United States. In addition to personal photos, she offers some fascinating insights into coping with life in the public eye. BECOMING is truly an inspiring and worthwhile read.

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FairhavenLibe
Jun 20, 2019

Michelle Obama's book is everything I hoped it to be--personal, direct, honest, unpretentious, and of course beautifully written. I was brought to tears unexpectedly along the way. Hers is a voice we should listen to and heed.

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carolwu96
Jun 15, 2019

I loved this book! For a while everyone I knew was reading it so I thought I needed to jump on board.
This is an autobiography reflecting on how Obama’s younger years made her who she is and her experience as the First Lady. I thought the section titles were clever: Becoming Me, Becoming Us, and Becoming More.
I am not a political person (although there ARE rights I am very passionate about) and before I started reading I was a little anxious about exposing myself to potential propaganda. And there ARE propaganda and the evidence for an intentional persona, which I have actually written an article on (https://mp.weixin.qq.com/s/5bQL26fu9vlK1NOBel2LNA here is the link for my Chinese readers) but I actually minded it much less than I had expected. Yes there is all that but from her words I still saw her as an activist and an advocate, and I think that even though there are things that she is not talking about, what she has revealed is enough to make me like her. As I said somewhere else (I actually don’t remember where) unless she had the experience ghostwritten for her in full, words don’t lie and are a reflection of part of her true self.
At certain moments I had been filled with tears. Strong words can only come from a strong individual, and she is a determined person indeed.
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EPool_Lib
Jun 14, 2019

Fantastic!!

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melissajayne80
Jun 04, 2019

I really enjoyed the book. Definitely one of my favourite reads of 2019. I liked how she talked about the various people that mentored her along the way, about the joys and sorrows of her life and makes herself vulnerable to readers.

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cknightkc
Jun 23, 2019

“Failure is a feeling long before it becomes an actual result.” - p. 43

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cknightkc
Jun 23, 2019

“Do we settle for the world as it is, or do we work for the world as it should be?” - p. 118

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cknightkc
Jun 23, 2019

“For me, becoming isn’t about arriving somewhere or achieving a certain aim. I see it instead as forward motion, a means of evolving, a way to reach continuously toward a better self. The journey doesn’t end.” - p. 419

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jimg2000
Feb 05, 2019

Many quotes in goodreads already, likely includes many below:

I’ve wanted to ask my detractors which part of that phrase matters to them the most — is it “angry” or “black” or “woman”?
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Your story is what you have, what you will always have. It is something to own.
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Everything that mattered was within a five-block radius — my grandparents and cousins, the church on the corner where we were not quite regulars at Sunday school, the gas station where my mother sometimes sent me to pick up a pack of Newport’s, and the liquor store, which also sold Wonder bread, penny candy, and gallons of milk.
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Robbie and Terry were older. They grew up in a different era, with different concerns. They’d seen things our parents hadn’t — things that Craig and I, in our raucous childishness, couldn’t begin to guess.
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He was devoted to his car, a bronze - colored two - door Buick Electra 225, which he referred to with pride as “the Deuce and a Quarter.”

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jimg2000
Feb 05, 2019

If you’d had a head start at home, you were rewarded for it at school, deemed “bright” or “gifted,” which in turn only compounded your confidence. The advantages aggregated quickly.
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Kids found one another based not on the color of their skin but on who was outside and ready to play.
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In 1950, fifteen years before my parents moved to South Shore, the neighborhood had been 96 percent white. By the time I’d leave for college in 1981, it would be about 96 percent black.
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If my mother were somebody different, she might have done the polite thing and said, “Just go and do your best.” But she knew the difference. She knew the difference between whining and actual distress.
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Their anger over it can manifest itself as unruliness. It’s hardly their fault. They aren’t “bad kids.” They’re just trying to survive bad circumstances

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jimg2000
Feb 05, 2019

For the next nine years, knowing that I’d earned it, I made myself a fat peanut butter and jelly sandwich for breakfast each morning and consumed not a single egg.
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My grandfather, born in 1912, was the grandson of slaves, the son of a millworker, and the oldest of what would be ten children in his family. A quick-witted and intelligent kid, he’d been nicknamed “the Professor” and set his sights early on the idea of someday going to college. But not only was he black and from a poor family, he also came of age during the Great Depression.
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If you wanted to work as an electrician (or as a steelworker, carpenter, or plumber, for that matter) on any of the big job sites in Chicago, you needed a union card. And if you were black, the overwhelming odds were that you weren’t going …
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Speaking a certain way — the “white” way, as some would have it — was perceived as a betrayal, as being uppity, as somehow denying our culture.

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jimg2000
Feb 05, 2019

Failure is a feeling long before it becomes an actual result. It’s vulnerability that breeds with self-doubt and then is escalated, often deliberately, by fear.
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I tore through the lessons, quietly keeping tabs on where I stood among my peers as we charted our progress from long division to pre-algebra, from writing single paragraphs to turning in full research papers. For me, it was like a game. And as with any game, like most any kid, I was happiest when I was ahead.
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Advice, when she offered it, tended to be of the hard-boiled and pragmatic variety. “You don’t have to like your teacher,” she told me one day after I came home spewing complaints. “But that woman’s got the kind of math in her head that you need in yours. Focus on that and ignore the rest. ”
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Her goal was to push us out into the world. “I’m not raising babies,” she’d tell us. “I’m raising adults.”
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We weren’t going to “hang out” or “take a walk.” We were going to make out. And we were both all for it.

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jimg2000
Feb 05, 2019

I was caught up in the lonely thrill of being a teenager now, convinced that the adults around me had never been there themselves.
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Was she picturing herself on a tropical island somewhere? With a different kind of man, or in a different kind of house, or with a corner office instead of kids? I don’t know, and I suppose I could ask my mother, who is now in her eighties, but I don’t think it matters.
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If you’ve never passed a winter in Chicago, let me describe it: You can live for a hundred straight days beneath an iron-gray sky that claps itself like a lid over the city. Frigid, biting winds blow in off the lake. Snow falls in dozens of ways, in heavy overnight dumps and daytime, sideways squalls, in demoralizing sloppy sleet and fairy-tale billows of fluff. There’s ice, usually, lots of it, that shellacs the sidewalks and windshields that then need to be scrapped.
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I hadn’t needed to show her anything. I was only showing myself.

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jimg2000
Feb 05, 2019

I hoped that someday my feelings for a man would knock me sideways, that I’d get swept into the upending, tsunami-like rush that seemed to power all the best love stories.
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I’d been raised on the bedrock of football, basketball, and baseball, but it turned out that East Coast prep schoolers did more. Lacrosse was a thing. Field hockey was a thing. Squash, even, was a thing. For a kid from the South Side, it could be a little dizzying. “You row crew?” What does that even mean?
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It was hardly a straight meritocracy. There were the athletes, for example. There were the legacy kids, whose fathers and grandfathers had been Tigers or whose families had funded the building of a dorm or a library.
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If in high school I’d felt as if I were representing my neighborhood, now at Princeton I was representing my race.

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jimg2000
Feb 05, 2019

In my experience, you put a suit on any half-intelligent black man and white people tended to go bonkers.
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To me, he was sort of like a unicorn — unusual to the point of seeming almost unreal.
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Compared with my own lockstep march toward success, the direct arrow shot of my trajectory from Princeton to Harvard to my desk on the forty-seventh floor, Barack’s path was an improvisational zigzag through disparate worlds.
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He was in law school, he explained, because grassroots organizing had shown him that meaningful societal change required not just the work of the people on the ground but stronger policies and governmental action as well.
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There was no arguing with the fact that even with his challenged sense of style, Barack was a catch. He was good-looking, poised, and successful. He was athletic, interesting, and kind. What more could anyone want? I sailed into the bar, certain I was doing everyone a favor — him and all the ladies

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